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What’s Going on In Your Mind Matters. Changing Your Expectations Can Mean More Success, Experts Say

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“I think therefore I am,” mind over matter, the little engine that thought he could — our philosophers, language and literature all point to the power of perspective.

Psychologists say this common wisdom is right: What you expect from yourself and the world make a big impact on the results of your endeavors.

“From a neuroscience perspective, the brain will believe anything you tell it, right and wrong,” said Roseann Capanna-Hodge, a psychologist based in Connecticut.

Research has shown that this phenomenon can have huge benefits when approaching a significant or difficult task, said David Robson, science writer and author of “The Expectation Effect: How Your Mindset Can Change Your World.”

“We do know that there’s the mind-body connection, which isn’t kind of mysterious or magical, it’s just, it’s how it has to work and that this is in itself changing our physiology,” Robson told CNN Chief Medical Correspondent Dr. Sanjay Gupta in his podcast, Chasing Life.

Thinking that you could catch up in a race or that your public speaking anxiety could help you perform better does, in many cases, Robson said.

Psychologists agree and say that rerouting your expectations to work more for you takes self-awareness, self-compassion and resilience. Here are six expert ways to develop a mindset that pushes you toward success.

Curb the negative bias

Expectations, even negative ones, are meant to help our brains navigate a complicated world by simplifying our predictions of the wide range of outcomes to any situation, Emiliana Simon-Thomas, science director of the Greater Good Science Center at the University of California, Berkeley, said.

Those negative expectations can help up anticipate and avoid danger, but they aren’t always up to date with the context that surrounds us, she added. The bias to sense danger sometimes inaccurately skews how we see the situation ahead of us.

And inaccurate information in the face of a challenge can create obstacles of its own.

“Pessimistic thoughts really just put you in a position where you’re more vulnerable to actually experiencing that unpleasant or negative outcome,” she added.

Communicate better with yourself

Setting more positive expectations — and hopefully reaping the rewards — starts with how you talk to yourself, Capanna-Hodge said.

When baseball players step up to the plate, they tell themselves they will knock it out of the park, she said, and the rest of the world should be doing the same, whether it comes to dietary changes, dating, career development or physical challenges.

Sometimes, though, those negative thoughts feel pretty automatic. If that’s the case, Capanna-Hodge recommends activities like prayer, meditation, journaling and visualization to get better in touch with your goals and more in control about how you think about them.

Focus on the challenge

We tend to see ourselves and our obstacles in two ways, Simon-Thomas said. Either our abilities are fixed or can grow, and our obstacles are a threat or a challenge.

Shifting focus to believe that we can develop skills and to see difficulties as a challenge to be met rather than a threat to be avoided has shown to result in more success, she said.

“Is this a challenge that I can get excited about trying to drum up the resources to accomplish? Or is this a threat to my worth as a person?” Simon-Thomas said. “If you could relate to or interpret that situation as a challenge, your physiological response is empowering and equips you to be more creative and effective.”

Stretch mindset

An optimistic expectation doesn’t always mean tying yourself to one specific outcome, said Joan Rosenberg, a California-based psychologist and author of “90 Seconds to a Life You Love: How to Master Your Difficult Feelings to Cultivate Lasting Confidence, Resilience, and Authenticity.”

Instead, she recommends setting expectations that anticipates a positive result, without being too hard on yourself.

For trying something new and challenging, Rosenberg said her ideal mindset is “I’m going to do the best I can and see just how far I can stretch.”

Prepare to face the emotional outcomes

The disappointing truth is those seeking to accomplish something new often will have to fail at least a few times. Part of going into those challenges with an optimal mindset means preparing to face whatever the emotional consequences are — win or lose.

It usually isn’t the loss people avoid, but the feelings that can come with it, like fear, anger, vulnerability, sadness and embarrassment, Rosenberg said. For most, the worst part are the physical feelings that come with a setback, like a flush in your cheeks or racing heart.

Fortunately, data has shown those feels tend to last for no more than 90 seconds, she added. Preparing yourself to sit through whatever unpleasant emotion and feeling may arise can make you more ready to charge into the challenge as well as more resilient if it doesn’t go your way, she said.

Turn disappointment into information gathering

Sitting in those uncomfortable feels of loss can actually be turned into a gain, Rosenberg added.

She recommended people find the opportunity to find information in the disappointment. Perhaps you learn that you need to eat something more substantial before your 5K or triathlon, that your feelings of sadness mean you really care about the kind of job you were interviewing for, or that the new friends you have been spending time with don’t make you feel that good.

“Why would I want to stay present in those feelings? Because it’s a source of information that when, joined with thought and reason, will help me make better decisions in my life,” Rosenberg said.

Having realistically optimistic expectations is not a cure-all for life’s disappointments and losses, but it does better equip each of us to go into a challenge with our best resources, experts said.


Contributor: Madeline Holcombe, CNN

Why You Shouldn’t Exercise to Lose Weight

Why You Shouldn't Exercise to Lose Weight

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Many of us are lacing up our sneakers and starting (or restarting) exercise regimens in hopes of shedding unwanted pounds. Unquestionably, aiming to be more active is a good thing. But if the main reason is to lose weight, your New Year’s resolution could very well backfire.

For starters, exercise—at least the kind most of us do—is typically ineffective for weight loss. Take walking, for example. A 150-pound person who walks briskly for 30 minutes will burn, on average, around 140 calories. That’s equal to one can of soda—not exactly a great return on your investment of time and effort. It’s much easier just to skip the soda.

Studies overall show that doing moderate-intensity aerobic exercise such as walking for 30 minutes a day, five days a week—the amount recommended for good health—typically produces little or no weight loss by itself.

When moderate exercise is added to diet, the results are equally unimpressive. Pooling data from six trials, researchers found that a combination of diet and exercise generated no greater weight loss than diet alone after six months. At 12 months, the diet-and-exercise combo showed an advantage, but it was slight—about 4 pounds on average. In another review of studies, the difference was less than 3 pounds.

In studies where exercise has produced meaningful weight loss, participants burned at least 400 to 500 calories per session on five or more days a week. To achieve that, a 150-pound person would need to log a minimum of 90 minutes per day of brisk walking or 30 minutes of running 8-minute miles. In short, sessions need to go well beyond what most of us are willing or able to do. And even if we manage to exert that much effort, our bodies often compensate by boosting appetite and dialing down metabolism, effects that over time limit how many pounds we shed.

When exercise fails to meet our weight-loss expectations, we often sour on it and stop working out. In a study of 30 overweight people who participated in a 12-week exercise program and were interviewed afterward, this response was typical: “It was quite disappointing that I didn’t lose a single pound and . . . it kind of made me give up.” Another respondent who failed to lose weight described her exercise experience as “like banging my head against a brick wall.” It’s pretty safe to assume she didn’t go back for more.

Perhaps the biggest problem with exercising to drop pounds is that it turns physical activity into punishment—a price we have to pay for a slimmer body. How many times have you heard someone say (or said yourself) “I’ll need to do extra exercise” after eating too much during the holidays or at a celebratory dinner? We treat exercise as a form of self-punishment for being “bad.”

By framing exercise as penance, we’re unlikely to enjoy it or to keep doing it for very long. That’s the message from a study in which researchers asked middle-aged women to write down their thoughts about physical activity. Those who used terms like “calories” or “weight” were labeled “body-shapers,” while those who didn’t were called “non-body-shapers.” Both groups weighed about the same on average. The body-shapers were more likely to view exercise as a struggle, while the non-body-shapers tended to say that it made them feel good. Given such attitudes, it’s not surprising that the body-shapers exercised considerably less than the non-body-shapers.

The takeaway is that we’re more likely to perceive exercise positively and actually do it when we focus on our well-being rather than our weight. For some, the incentive may be an improved mood or less stress. Others may find that exercise makes them feel physically and mentally stronger or more in control of their lives.

Of course, the benefits of physical activity extend well beyond these. It’s been shown to reduce the risk of heart disease, stroke, cancer, diabetes, dementia, depression, colds, back pain, osteoporosis and premature death. It can also improve sleep, boost energy, fend off old-age feebleness and even enhance our sex lives.

What’s more, while it’s not very helpful for melting away pounds, exercise can prevent weight gain and improve your appearance by increasing muscle mass and reducing visceral fat, the type indicated by a large waist that’s linked to heart disease and diabetes.

Imagine a pill with this long list of benefits. We’d all be clamoring for it.

So by all means, strive to exercise regularly in 2022. It’s perhaps the most important thing you can do for your health. But to improve the odds of success, focus on how movement helps you feel better physically and emotionally—and forget about how it moves the needle on the scale.


Contributor: Robert J. Davis – Time.com

Why dancing may be the one New Year’s resolution you actually keep in 2022

Why dancing may be the one New Year's resolution you actually keep in 2022

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As a professionally trained dancer for nearly 20 years, I’ve found that a combination of pirouettes and leaps across the floor can leave me sweaty and breathing heavily on the other side — but I often don’t even notice it.

The rush of joy, power and freedom of dancing far outweighs the challenge.

If you get self-conscious, though, it may not have felt that way when the music came on at your cousin’s wedding in the Before Times and you stepped onto the dance floor.

If you can find a way through that initial awkwardness, experts say dancing can benefit your physical and mental well-being.

With the latest surge of Covid-19 raging, now may be the ideal time to get the hang of dancing from home. Why not start off by boogying in the privacy of your living room and build from there?

For many people, the new year starts off with ambitious goals for a better life, only to have those resolutions fizzle by mid-March. Bringing more dance into your life, however, might be a way to increase mental and physical health that actually sticks, said New York-based Brazilian professional dancer Ricardo Souza. With Covid-19 making gathering in the dance studio risky, many teachers are offering online options, he said.

“When most people set New Year’s resolutions, they make ones for things they really don’t want to do, like lose weight or work out more,” Souza said via email. “Dance is something that is fun, and because of that, you are much more apt to stick with it! It’s also something you can take at your own pace and have realistic goals around so that it continues being something enjoyable.”

The benefits of having fun are backed by science. Research shows that you are more likely to continue your workouts if you enjoy them, according to Katy Milkman, behavioral scientist and professor at the Wharton School of the University of Pennsylvania.

Whether you are drawn to a two-step or a tango, jazz or jazzercise, hip-hop or Broadway tap: Dance professionals say there are ways for people of every taste and experience level to bring more dance into their lives to find better fitness, joy and social connection.

Get moving and go cardio

If you are looking to increase your workouts, how can you beat moving to your favorite music?

“I think dance is a fantastic form of cardiovascular exercise, which is a really important part of a well-rounded fitness program,” said Dana Santas, a CNN fitness contributor and mind-body coach for professional athletes.

Cardiovascular exercise is anything that sustains a raised heart rate, works your respiratory system and uses large muscle groups, she added.
“Upbeat dancing, which uses your legs — and pretty much your whole body — definitely qualifies,” Santas said. That cardiovascular exercise can help you reach a multitude of goals for the new year.

“It burns calories, helps your heart and lungs work more efficiently, boosts production of feel-good hormones and mood-boosting endorphins and increases endurance over time, so you feel more energized and less tired throughout your day,” Santas said.

For those aiming for more energy, cardio has also been linked to increased sleep quality, according to a study in the Journal of Physiotherapy.

Get happier

That movement can also lift your mood during what is a stressful and chaotic time for many people. Research published in the journal Front Psychiatry found that exercise and activity reduces anxiety.

“Any time you move your physical body in a joyful way, it benefits all aspects of your health and well-being,” Souza said. “It’s also a great way to get out of this Covid rut so many people have been in, to try something new, and to meet new people.”

The poise, coordination and grace needed to execute many of the forms of dance can change the confidence people have in themselves, he added.

The clearest mental benefit of dance is the social engagement and emotional outlet it provides “in a way that doesn’t put pressure on the need to communicate verbally,” said Lucie Clements, a UK-based psychologist who works with professional dancers.

Find the dance style for you

Dance may sound enticing, but if images of perfect ballerinas in shiny, satin pointe shoes make the idea sound inaccessible, never fear, experts said.

There are plenty of ways to get inspired — and overcome the shyness that may hold you back.

“First, be open-minded to try and learn as many dances as you can,” Souza said.

Taking a one-off class likely won’t give you the results or happiness you are looking for, Clements said. It may help to try different styles or different kinds of instructors to see what works best for you.

If you are a little embarrassed at the thought of not knowing what you are doing, having a more structured class with an instructor with a history in pedagogical training may provide the experience you are looking for, Clements said.

Free yourself of expectations

“Second, have fun with your mistakes. Nobody is watching you or cares about your mistakes,” Souza said.
“There is a part of you that wants to move, be loud, and goofy, and expressive. Let it go!” he added. “If you still don’t feel comfortable, you can always name this ‘character.’ I have a name for my sexy and passionate self. I call him ‘The Latin Lover.’

“Every time that I start to feel uncomfortable with a sexy movement or choreography, I call ‘The Latin Lover’ to dance. It works!”

That might be easier said than done for some people. You can take it slowly with those online classes, Souza suggested.

“Then you build confidence to dance in person when things get better,” he said.
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The third step to creating a dance resolution is considering finding a way to work toward a performance, according to Souza.

“One of the benefits of dance is how it can train you to be in the spotlight, and this is a valuable lesson that can be applied to many areas of life,” Souza said. “Remember, this is about self-expression and having fun. Go in without expectations. Remember that movement is natural, and just have fun.”


Contributor: Madeline Holcombe, CNN

10 Health Goals You Can Easily Achieve in 2022, Say Dietitians

10 Health Goals You Can Easily Achieve in 2022, Say Dietitians

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Experts share approachable healthy New Year’s resolutions that don’t focus on the scale.
Instead of setting yourself a lofty weight loss goal, what if this year, you approached your New Year’s resolution a little differently? Losing weight isn’t the end-all-be-all for getting healthy, and can easily lead to unhealthy dieting practices down the line. So alternatively, what if you set a goal that encouraged living a healthier life rather than focusing on a number on the scale?

Eating a nutritious diet is about so much more than just losing weight. Your diet can affect your longevity, your risk of developing chronic diseases, and even your mood. And a nutritious diet doesn’t mean restriction—it means learning how to eat healthfully while still incorporating in all of the foods that you love into your life.

Sure, weight loss may come over time, but don’t let it be your only motivation. You’ll likely have moments where the number on the scale doesn’t budge—or you may even see fluctuations in your weight for all kinds of other reasons (bloating, menstruation, climate, illness, and many other factors could be at play).

Instead of getting frustrated by a number and giving up on your health when things “just aren’t working,” focus on other markers. How does this new healthy resolution make you feel? What are some of the positive physical changes you’re seeing (clear skin, less bloating, regular bowel movements, more energy)? How about the mental changes?

If this sounds like something you desire for your health this year, you’ve come to the right place. We asked a few dietitians to share some attainable healthy resolutions you can easily adopt in 2022 that will leave you feeling healthy, energized, and ready to take on the year ahead. No scale required.

1. Honor your body’s hunger and fullness cues.

Don’t wait for your body to get overly hungry or overly full. Dr. Rachel Paul, PhD, RD from CollegeNutritionist.com says to feed yourself when needed, and to stop when you’re no longer hungry.

“The hunger scale goes from 1 to 10, where 1 is starving, and 10 is super full,” says Paul. “Aim to stay in the 3 to 7 range, where you wait to eat until you’re hungry, and stop eating when you’re full. No food is ‘not allowed’ and you can always eat a certain food again, next time you’re hungry.”

2. Eat the rainbow every day.

Who doesn’t love an eye-catching colorful plate of food? Incorporating a variety of colors on your plate is a great way to ensure you’re getting all kinds of nutrients in your diet, says Mackenzie Burgess, RDN and recipe developer at Cheerful Choices.

“All of these different colors represent different antioxidants, phytochemicals, and nutrients you need to support a healthy body,” says Mackenzie Burgess, RDN and recipe developer at Cheerful Choices.

Burgess says the colors are commonly broken up into five different categories: red, yellow and orange, green, purple and blue, and white.

“While it probably isn’t realistic to eat every color in one meal, try to incorporate these different colored foods throughout the week with the goal of eating as many as possible,” says Burgess.

3. Schedule exercise in your day.

“We all schedule work meetings, hair appointments, and dinner reservations on our calendars, why not exercise?” asks Amy Goodson, MS, RD, CSSD, LD, author of The Sports Nutrition Playbook and a member of our medical expert board. “‘I’ll exercise more’ sounds good, but often the hardest part is actually making it happen. So, make your goal to schedule exercise on your calendar and if you have a conflict, reschedule it, just like you would a work meeting.”

Goodson recommends setting your workout “appointment” three times a week at first. Once you start making those meetings regularly and feel good about it, you can add in another day or two.

“This is a fantastic way to tangibly make exercise a part of your life,” says Goodson.

4. Increase your fiber intake.

“While the recommendation is to eat 25 to 38 grams of fiber a day, the average American only eats about 10 to 13 grams,” says Goodson. “Fiber helps feed the good bacteria in your gut and certain types of fiber, soluble fiber, can help lower cholesterol. 25 grams may sound like a lot, but look for ways to add small amounts of fiber to each meal and snack.” Goodson recommends fiber-rich foods like oatmeal for breakfast, apples for a snack, sandwiches made with 100% whole-grain bread, and stir-fry with half rice and half cauliflower rice.

“All these foods will help you increase your daily intake of fiber,” says Goodson.

5. Include a fruit or vegetable at each meal.

According to Lisa Young, PhD, RDN, author of Finally Full, Finally Slim and a member of our medical expert board, eating a nutritious diet isn’t about excluding foods and eating less.

“This tactic often backfires,” says Young. “The best way to eat less of an unhealthy food is to eat more of a healthy one.”

Instead, it’s about incorporating the right kinds of foods into a diet that makes sense for you. So what are those healthy foods to always incoporate into your meals? Fruits and vegetables!

“Focus on adding a fruit or a vegetable to each meal,” says Young. “Add a cup of berries to your oatmeal or enjoy an omelet with spinach and cheese for breakfast. At lunch, top your sandwich with avocado, lettuce, and tomato. At dinner, start with a vegetable soup or salad and enjoy a cooked vegetable like sauteed Bok choy or roasted cauliflower.”

6. Have a veggie at breakfast.

“Make it your resolution to make breakfast a little healthier and more unique than a bowl of cereal or eating a granola bar,” says Cheryl Mussatto MS, RD, LD, author of The Nourished Brain. “Why not include a fiber-filled, nutrient- and antioxidant-rich veggie as part of this meal? Considering that 90% of U.S. citizens are not meeting the Dietary Guidelines for Americans’ recommendation to eat 2 to 3 cups of vegetables each day, starting your day with a vegetable is an opportunity to squeeze one in.”

“For instance, add a handful of baby spinach to scrambled eggs or add a slice of tomato to your avocado toast,” Musatto continues. “Another fun idea is to stir grated zucchini into pancake batter or have a side of last night’s leftover roasted veggies alongside a whole grain muffin. And of course, yogurt-based smoothies are always perfect for adding in veggies like kale, cooked carrots, sweet potatoes, or even beets.”

7. Try a new fruit or vegetable each week.

Not a fan of fruits or vegetables? Instead of doing a complete 180 this year, why not slowly work some into your diet over time? A great way to do this is by trying a new fruit or vegetable each week, and evaluating what you want to keep or not keep in your diet moving forward.

“Many of us have gotten stuck in our ways when it comes to the fruit and vegetables we’ve always eaten, but often don’t realize that our taste can mature and change over time,” says Trista Best, MPH, RD, LD, from Balance One Supplements. “By revisiting some old fruit or vegetables you didn’t like or trying new ones you can open up a whole new world of nutrient-dense foods.”

“If there is a vegetable you didn’t like before you can also opt to try a new cooking method,” Best continues. “If one new fruit or vegetable weekly is too much, allow yourself to introduce one every other week or on a monthly basis. By the end of 2022, you’ll be surprised to see how much variety you now have in your diet and new recipes you can integrate into your regular meal routine.”

8. Sweeten foods and drinks naturally.

“If you want to try to skip or limit the sugar in your drinks and baked goods, use honey as an alternative,” says Maggie Michalczyk, RDN, founder of OnceUponAPumpkinRD.com and author of The Great Big Pumpkin Cookbook. “Honey is a pure and natural sweetener with a wide array of vitamins, minerals, amino acids, and antioxidants. Just a drizzle can transform and elevate many different recipes, plus honey is a natural energy booster making it a great choice to add to a cup of tea.”

9. Prioritize your gut health.

“We continue to learn so much how the gut is connected to things like our digestion, mood, immune system, and more,” says Michalczyk. “If you’re looking to make simple health changes in the new year, consider making small changes to benefit your gut. For example, incorporating a probiotic into your routine, adding more fermented foods into your diet, or taking small steps to be less stressed out overall is all really beneficial for our gut health overall.”

10. Eat whole foods.

While packaged, processed foods can be convenient when you’re on the go, dietitians recommend that most of the time you focus on eating whole, real foods instead—the types of foods you would find in the perimeter of the grocery store.
“Excessive consumption of fast food is harmful to your health,” says Shannon Henry, RD with EZCare Clinic. “Although it is good in moderation, fast food can lead to obesity, heart strokes, and much more. For new year resolution, focus on eating less fast food and more whole foods—including vegetables, fruits, nuts and seeds, whole grains, and fish.”


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